If you read my previous post, I asked girls about the reasons why they are still uncommitted. This time, I get to hear what the guys have to say about the women they know who are still single. Of course I’m here to share them all to you.
According to my experience, with most girls, they’re more on the wealthy and good looking guys which is very shallow in my opinion. Because girls have so many dreams and different styles of fashion that they want to achieve before it’s too late, and who’s better than a dreamy prince who’s riding a Ferrari to do that? They are not spending time knowing each other or letting the chemistry flow naturally and smoothly.
– Amr, 28, Syria
Because they have high standards. Guys get intimidated by them.
– Jake, 22, Philippines
I think that’s because she is too perfect herself and she demands very high of her partner. She has set a very high bar that no guy has been able to meet.
– Patrik, 28, UK
My objective point of view from my experience – waiting for the right man and right time; afraid to take chances and fall in love with the wrong person; afraid to say yes to going out just to try it out; society and cultural norms; family; lack of self confidence; had her heart broken so many times – all men are pigs by now; suffered a trauma when she was young; and she probably works too much.
– G, 30, Europe
I have my own saying, “Love happens one-sidedly.” One side is the lover, other side is the receiver. Lover always loses though. Receiver takes attention from lover until it becomes boring so the receiver will want attention from others. You only love someone who challenges you and the one who challenges you will never love you. Ironic.
– Kurt, 31, Turkey
There is no specific answer to that question and reasons may vary from person to person. But if I have to sum it all up in one sentence, then I’d say they chose to be single. Now that choice is strongly influenced by the experiences from previous relationships or by being very picky or in some cases due to low self-esteem. For sure there are many other reasons but in my opinion, the answer to that question lies within each woman.
– Ark, 28, Brazil
The girl might be single for more than a hundred reasons. Probably she has a horrible character, she can’t find someone that gets her or she has very high standards.
– SinZ, 28, Lebanon
Sometimes girls are too picky, there are not many good men outside these days. Sometimes you just cannot catch the chemistry.
– Emre, 26, Turkey
They chose to be single until now because she can’t leave her happy adventurous life, feeling free on what she wants to do, no restrictions on where she chooses to go may it be nightlife or out of town and her lust of the trendy life like having the latest gadgets and fashions. She’s afraid to change her lifestyle being single.
– Rencie, Philippines
They want to enjoy their life being single before getting into a relationship or they’re waiting for true love or maybe they are just too picky. Women don’t last long in a relationship because they are always looking for a better man. They always tend to compare their ex’s with their present boyfriend.
– Mon, Philippines
So ladies, what do you think? Did they get it right? Are we on the same page?
Thank you to all the men who contributed to this article. You know who you are. Cheers!