I noticed that my previous personal post (read it HERE) has received some comments from mostly the opposite sex (which was unexpected but truly welcomed) so I thought why not get their opinions about another issue that has been arousing my curiosity.
During the less modern times, society has ingrained in women that they shouldn’t approach / initiate the first move towards men but instead let the latter set things in motion. Women who do not abide by this are usually subject to judgment and being deemed as a slut (unfortunately mostly by the same sex). In Filipino culture, it is usually advised to the ladies to play hard to get hence approaching a guy was never considered a norm.
But thankfully now, times have changed plus evolved (I would like to think so) where it is normally / socially accepted for women to take their destinies into their own hands and plunge forward in making the first move.
I applaud women who can casually approach a guy to show their interest due to the fact that I am not “ballsy” enough to do it (I regret to say that even if I am utterly intoxicated my brain will not get me to do it). Don’t get me wrong, I also take my hat off to the men who have the guts to start the ball rolling since they also face the same consequence of being rejected (which is my actual fear).
My question now to the men is if a woman approaches you plus tells you that she is interested in you, how do you react? Are you turned off by the woman or turned on? Has it actually ever happened to you?
Now for the ladies who have done it, what was the experience like? and for those who haven’t, do you think you’ll ever try it at least even once?
As for me, yeah, I might one day muster up the courage to do the first move but until then I’m just gonna “keep swimming” (as Dory once said).
Let me know your thoughts! Leave it at the comments section below please 🙂
DISCLAIMER: http://lifewithkarlly.com/disclaimer/ – As of this posting, I am yet to approach a guy and make my move.
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