Personal: Too Quick to Judge

In this day and age, it seems everyone has a lot to say. Because of the digital era we live in, it takes no effort for us to check or stalk (whichever you prefer) people of interest to us on Snapchat, Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, etc. and with this comes a relatively easy way for us to formulate our own ideas of how a person is. We tend to become very judgmental creatures about someone’s character based on their profile and photos without even realizing that this person has a story or has gone through their own rough patches or even might be wearing a mask to conceal their real personality.

I am not going to lie and tell you that I’m not a person who is quick to judge because I myself am guilty of jumping into conclusions without actual basis for anything. It is a truly bad habit which I am hoping to kick since I hate being judged as well. A few weeks ago I was told by a friend that her friend mentioned that I am a “party-goer” which I didn’t know how to react to at that time because I was not sure if it was supposed to be an insult (or something similar) but I did not overreact to it because I knew deep inside that it is sort of true.

You know that I love going out on weekends (or even weekdays at times) with my “squad” to go to bars / clubs to dance the night away and have fun which is evident on my Snapchat (if you follow me). From the outside looking in, you would think that I should not be taken seriously since it looks that way and that all I want to do is get drunk but you are mistaken. Of course, there are certain things in life that should be taken seriously like paying the bills on time, focusing on work and other grown up responsibilities but at the end of the week it is essential to unwind as well. Life would be so dull if we stick to the same routine of home-work-home. I am not saying or in no way implying that you should do what I do but it is important to make time for your social life.

I guess the point I’m trying to make is that we shouldn’t be judgmental or be too quick to assume of how a person is because you can surely be wrong about them.

Yes, I love to have fun but that doesn’t mean that I cannot be counted on. That doesn’t mean that I do not have aspirations that I still want to reach. That doesn’t mean that I am not someone you can’t take home to your mom to meet. That doesn’t mean that I am only for the GOOD TIME.

It might just mean that I choose what I want to show you and if you are worthy of knowing me then I might just end up showing you the REAL me.

Let me know your thoughts! Leave it at the comments section below please 🙂



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